You're struggling with relationships the way other people are struggling with jobs; feeling inadequate, can't figure out what's going wrong or how to get out of the rut, wondering why other people can do this and you can't...it's difficult.
One of the things that I've learned is that relationships are a measure of what you can and can't live with. If the things you can't outweigh the things you can,it's time to go--or not get started in the first place. And remember, even if you have issues of your own, a partner is willing to work with you, and you him.
Just like in the job world, if you want to be successful, you have to keep going. Learn from your mistakes, take it slow, and keep trying. You will figure it out. Don't be afraid to take breaks along the way.
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One of the things that I've learned is that relationships are a measure of what you can and can't live with. If the things you can't outweigh the things you can,it's time to go--or not get started in the first place. And remember, even if you have issues of your own, a partner is willing to work with you, and you him.
Just like in the job world, if you want to be successful, you have to keep going. Learn from your mistakes, take it slow, and keep trying. You will figure it out. Don't be afraid to take breaks along the way.