awesomesprout: (By mayoushka)
awesomesprout ([personal profile] awesomesprout) wrote2007-09-28 10:59 am

Quickie.

Holy Shit.

Mike is a Sociopath.

Thank you Psychology class.

( and credit due to anyone who said this before because I swear someone did. )

Sociopath: Symptoms include: deceitfulness, conning others for personal profit or pleasure, impulsivity or failure to plan ahead, irritability and aggresiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assults, reckless disregard for safety of self or others, consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain steady work or honor financial obligations, lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another.

" Sociopaths love hanging out with normal people because we're such suckers. Normal people don't love hanging out with sociopaths. If you've ever dealt with one, you'll notice though that trying to read their minds at the level of tracking their motives turns out to be inappropriately fine tuned. It's easy to get lost in the details of their rationalizations. They're tell you they care about what happens to you, but they don't. The only motive to track in them is the motive to get what they want.

When you finally figure them out you'll think that you didn't see the forest for the trees. "

Definition and quote from Jeremy Sherman, Ph.D

It all makes so much sense now.

It's like I can see things totally clearly.

I understand that may not be the SAY ALL BE ALL total explination of his behaviour. But good god. It sure puts a lot of things into perspective and makes a LOT of sense.

Wow.

I almost feel this sense of.... relief.

[identity profile] vacantseas.livejournal.com 2007-09-28 06:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Goodness! that's him to a T!

[identity profile] sproutchk.livejournal.com 2007-09-29 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
Ya know what I mean? How was your udon? I HAVE to go back to that place and profess my love to that hot ass waiter :) Or else... I may die. :)

You down for a dvd night sometime in the near future?

[identity profile] vacantseas.livejournal.com 2007-09-29 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
my udon was fantastic! and you really need to. that guy was just TOO hot jesus christ! and i'm not even into azns :)

and heck yes, bring on the DVD night!

[identity profile] sproutchk.livejournal.com 2007-09-29 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
Yes. He will be mine. Oh yes. He will be mine. Sooooo f'n hot. With the piercings and the accent.. and the... yah.

I swear when I first saw him I almost blurted out, " You are the hottest guy I've ever seen. " right to his face when he was all like, " Oh here's your sushi. "

Imagine how stupid I would have felt :)

So I don't have class next friday so I can stay up late on thursday night. ORRRRR.... kick it next weekend. I'll see how the week goes and we can figure it out.

I'm still sueing you for the dog bites. Evil bostons. grr. :) hehe.

[identity profile] scriviner.livejournal.com 2007-09-28 06:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Or it could just be a total lack of maturity. The behavior he's engaged in that you've described before sounds like just plain childishness and an inability to grow up largely due to never having had to deal with the consequences of his screw ups.

What do you think?

[identity profile] sproutchk.livejournal.com 2007-09-29 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
Could be both which is a bad bad combo.

[identity profile] silverstorm2013.livejournal.com 2007-09-28 07:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Sokath, his eyes uncovered!

[identity profile] dicedork.livejournal.com 2007-09-29 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
Shaka. When the walls fell.

[identity profile] silverstorm2013.livejournal.com 2007-09-29 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
Kiazi's children, their faces wet

[identity profile] britgeekgrrl.livejournal.com 2007-09-28 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Truth be told, I was leaning towards borderline personality disorder, myself, but I didn't see much point in mentioning that to you, because - as you've noticed - you wouldn't have wanted to hear it at the time.

Now go do your homework, kiddo, and brush the dust of that boy off your boots. ;)

[identity profile] sproutchk.livejournal.com 2007-09-29 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Homework is on top of and being done. :) And thanks for thinking about it anyway even if you didn't say anything :)

[identity profile] moonlightgdess.livejournal.com 2007-09-29 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Sociopath... spoiled brat... it's a coin toss really :P

[identity profile] sproutchk.livejournal.com 2007-09-29 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my. :)