Perhaps you should invest in some less constraining agreements. You've always maintained that a journal is for the journaler and those who read do so at their own peril--you have even vented today that the buyer beware. Perhaps Jessica is using LJ as a passive agressive attempt to get sympathy by turning around popular support against you in a great conspiritorial scheeme, but it' more likely that she's just venting.

I might suggest that your true quarrel is with people who read into this stuff. With those who aren't soliciting your side of things, or jump to conclusions. With those who are reading a vague no-names-named post of self deprication, and jumping to the conclusion that you are unfair. But I think you might be suffering from a healthy dose of self consciousness in this regard. Most people are judging the situation, not you or her specifically.