"Other people's happiness makes me happy. I'm selfish in the sense of giving them everything they want to make them happy so that I'm happy all the time." I do the same.
I also need a job and it is silly that I haven't attained one. Not having a job makes me feel like a worthless peice of shit (I can't say this on my lj or most that I know because I am really damn ashamed and even though most know I don't have a job I don't want them to remember.
Behind your back if I mention you it is in complement.

Feel free to tell me all your secrets *evil grin*