You dress just fine. Interviewing is all about first impressions - you need to dress better and more professionally than you would when you have the position. My grandfather always told me to wear a suit to ANY interview. "Boy, it don't matter if they want you to dig a ditch. You show up in a suit and show them you WANT the job." It's good advice.
Your car. I don't know what people have told you or not, so I'll jsut give my opinion. Leasing a car is generally a bad idea - ou have nothing when it's done. But you did, so enjoy it I guess. Financial strength comes from truth - living within your means. Being happy with what you really can have. Driving a phat car you can't afford is a lie. It's a lie to yourself, and you deserve truth form others and yourself, right? And it's not a lie that doesn't hurt you, it does. It prevents you from other oppurtunites and creates financial stress. My advice would be to buy your next car. So that's my piece there.
Weight. I think you look just fine, but it's really about your happiness. So I would say figure out if your happy or not, sounds like you are.
Relationship. i don't know enough here to give good advice. they are so complex, it's always hard.
So, I hope you don't think i'm attacking you or trying to take your happiness away, I am just trying to give you good advice.
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You dress just fine. Interviewing is all about first impressions - you need to dress better and more professionally than you would when you have the position. My grandfather always told me to wear a suit to ANY interview. "Boy, it don't matter if they want you to dig a ditch. You show up in a suit and show them you WANT the job." It's good advice.
Your car. I don't know what people have told you or not, so I'll jsut give my opinion. Leasing a car is generally a bad idea - ou have nothing when it's done. But you did, so enjoy it I guess. Financial strength comes from truth - living within your means. Being happy with what you really can have. Driving a phat car you can't afford is a lie. It's a lie to yourself, and you deserve truth form others and yourself, right? And it's not a lie that doesn't hurt you, it does. It prevents you from other oppurtunites and creates financial stress. My advice would be to buy your next car. So that's my piece there.
Weight. I think you look just fine, but it's really about your happiness. So I would say figure out if your happy or not, sounds like you are.
Relationship. i don't know enough here to give good advice. they are so complex, it's always hard.
So, I hope you don't think i'm attacking you or trying to take your happiness away, I am just trying to give you good advice.