Thanks for the Link post. No thanks for the attitude. I praise those who wish to give support because they want to, not because they feel they have to. I believe you owe Sarah an opology. I read your conversation with her and I must say I am shocked. If you feel Sarah's problems are stupid and small. Then you truely have no buisness being her friend nor mine. Sarah has been through ALOT recently. And I have tried my hardest to be there for her and you are NOT helping things at all. I understand you have your own problems and own issues to deal with. But when you belittle her problems, thats when I have a problem with you. Maybe you should rethink your friendship with Sarah and think about what is most important to you.
Maybe she should think about becoming and adult and if she has a problem with me to deal with it herself. You BOTH Obviously didn't understand what I was trying to say. And that's that I'm sick and fucking tired of her ALWAYS being pissed off at me. It is NOT my responsibility to gather people to donate. If I had the time I would have posted it. But yes, I am dealing with my own shit too.
I didn't say the problems were small. I said her way of dealing with her being angry at me was stupid and small. Why don't you re-read the conversation if you want to become part of party dealing with the issue.
Other than that. I have nothing to say to you or her at this point because I'm sick of people getting pissed at me for shit that isn't my problem.
I helped where I could. And I made that abundantly clear. Did Sarah once say anything about my cat or my problems? No.
Is Sarah going to be there when I need help paying my rent because I have vet bills? No.
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No thanks for the attitude.
I praise those who wish to give support because they want to, not because they feel they have to. I believe you owe Sarah an opology. I read your conversation with her and I must say I am shocked. If you feel Sarah's problems are stupid and small. Then you truely have no buisness being her friend nor mine. Sarah has been through ALOT recently. And I have tried my hardest to be there for her and you are NOT helping things at all. I understand you have your own problems and own issues to deal with. But when you belittle her problems, thats when I have a problem with you. Maybe you should rethink your friendship with Sarah and think about what is most important to you.
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I didn't say the problems were small. I said her way of dealing with her being angry at me was stupid and small. Why don't you re-read the conversation if you want to become part of party dealing with the issue.
Other than that. I have nothing to say to you or her at this point because I'm sick of people getting pissed at me for shit that isn't my problem.
I helped where I could. And I made that abundantly clear. Did Sarah once say anything about my cat or my problems? No.
Is Sarah going to be there when I need help paying my rent because I have vet bills? No.
WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN SHIT TO DEAL WITH!
I DID WHAT I COULD.
Get over it.
Jesus christ.
I'm sick of everyone.
And everyone wonders why I become anti-social.
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You obviously missed the point and decided to start pointing fingers.
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I don't owe anyone anything in this. So I'm not going to look like the bad guy becuase I didn't do something.
I offered support in my own way.
So by me not posting a link doesn't make me a bad person and not offering support.
Haven't you ever heard of the good samaritan clause?
It's the theory that everyone will expect everyone else to do something.
Meaning if you see someone fall, you tend to keep walking because you figure someone else will help them.
Hence, why I don't understand why I'm the bad person because I didn't do one thing that several other people did.
My friends who don't know Sarah are pretty poor too. And they really aren't the type to give money to a cause for someone they don't even know.
I know that sucks. But that's true with a lot of people.
Did you ever think why they push the " Your vote counts. " saying?
It's because everyone figures the other person will do it and they don't have to.
So I supported her in a way that I felt was more personal.
I fucking called her in Erie. I offered her my condolances. I told her I thought it sucked and that I was there for her.
So you know what?
I'm done.
I don't owe anyone anything.
Call me selfish all the hell you'd like. But in the end. No one else is going to be there to pick me up when I fall, except for me.