well, chris kinda touched on what i was going to say.

but then again, i understand your perspective. it sucks to feel unimportant.if you do not want that anymore you have got to talk to him and state what it is you'd like to change.

feeling unwanted sucks. i definitely feel you on this one. but that's a part of the deal, if something is making you feel horrible, talk baout it. let him know what it is. you might find that things go better for it.