I dunno what it is about this except to say--this should not be a public discussion, is my opinion. It's a matter that should stay between the two folks involved.

That's all. Two bits from everyone around James and Jess who have opinions ain't gonna help unless the opinions are solicited, and the gossip fairy and the amount of folks who have opinions on such matters are pretty huge. I got my own opinions but I'm not posting em here. :)