I'll admit that I've found my anon experiences to be nothing but thought provoking. If someone is pointing out flaws in myself, I'll actually react better, because I get less defensive.
*shrug* It's got to be wiring, or world view, or something. What is more important than who to me.
Have you considered (and this might not apply to anyone but me, I'll admit) that there are people who, while willing to talk to you and point things out, and give advice, they don't really want to open themselves up to LiveDrama, but don't have other practical ways of contacting you? In particular, I don't want to cause drama with Koga, as he and I clash in interesting ways without any assistance.
I have to agree with all three of the anon posters from before, some more than others. From the outside looking in at your romantic relationship, you've changed a lot over the last while, as has he. You've changed slowly - you used to be really happy, cheerful, laughing, etc. And until last night, I hadn't seen you like that for a long time. While there was a dramatic change in your sweetie at the beginning, he's (again, from the outside looking in) reverted mostly to old habits and patterns.
SO. yeah.
Drop me an email, or an IM. I am absolutely not going to say any more here.
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I'll admit that I've found my anon experiences to be nothing but thought provoking. If someone is pointing out flaws in myself, I'll actually react better, because I get less defensive.
*shrug* It's got to be wiring, or world view, or something. What is more important than who to me.
Have you considered (and this might not apply to anyone but me, I'll admit) that there are people who, while willing to talk to you and point things out, and give advice, they don't really want to open themselves up to LiveDrama, but don't have other practical ways of contacting you? In particular, I don't want to cause drama with Koga, as he and I clash in interesting ways without any assistance.
I have to agree with all three of the anon posters from before, some more than others. From the outside looking in at your romantic relationship, you've changed a lot over the last while, as has he. You've changed slowly - you used to be really happy, cheerful, laughing, etc. And until last night, I hadn't seen you like that for a long time. While there was a dramatic change in your sweetie at the beginning, he's (again, from the outside looking in) reverted mostly to old habits and patterns.
SO.
yeah.
Drop me an email, or an IM. I am absolutely not going to say any more here.
~G