knowing who. Simply because I can have a face to face with that person and talk things out and get how they really feel. I mean obviously to a certain degree to they want to be heard and I'm willing to listen. I don't freak out. I don't jump out and down shouting. I listen and I feel bad that my friends can't just tell me these things for whatever reason.

But if I can't know the who than the what is just as important