Make up your mind on what you want and go for it. Don't let anyone control you.

When everything is said and done you will have to stand on your own and you can't count on others to support you in every crisis you have every day of your life. Realize that there is more to life then your boy and then grow to be your own person.

Also realize that you are more then just "James Girl Friend."

There is more to life then being in a relationship with someone.